Why do you come to class 1 week and not the next ?
Why do you loose weight and then put it back on ?
Why do you say one thing and do another ?
These are all signs of yo-yo behavior, the very thing that we are trying to get rid of.
In order to overcome it, we must understand it and
we must recognise it in ourselves as well. I bet if you dig deep, you
will find an area of your family life or business where you jump from
one thing to another but never really get anything done. In these
situations, we are very easily influenced by what others say and do, we
can be motivated to have what they have, demotivated that we have it and
we don't, inspired, sceptical, there is a roller coaster of emotion
attached to the things that we are not fully committed to or confident
with.
At this time we really should not overlook our key strengths. Those things that are so natural to us, we take them for granted.
Here Douglas Idugboe reveals the 7 traits that we need to be aware of in our current society. See if you can identify your strengths and weaknesses.
The Leader -
A leader leads by example and influences others. However, leadership is
also a two-way sword. A leader can influence others to follow/ obey
him. On the other hand, it's easy to get intimidated by a leader's aura
and maintain some distance. Therefore, being a leader can have varying
influence on various people.
The Winner -
Winners are the been-there-done-that individuals and businesses.
They've established a name for themselves by sheer virtue of their
achievements. In most cases, they'll have a positive influence on others
influencing them to achieve more.
The Innovator -
An innovator influences others by the virtue of his out of the box
thinking. He's a person who doesn't follow run-of-the-mill stuff and
somebody whom you can associate with producing the next big game changer
in any field.
The Believer -
A believer stands firm by what he believes is correct. He's a person
who can make others believe in him by the sheer virtue of his strong
thinking. However, a believer must match his beliefs with action.
The Follower -
A follower is someone who looks up to others for guidance. He's more
likely to be influenced by others. A follower can in turn influence
others by his words or actions.
The Caregiver -
A quick look at human history testifies that most people are likely to
be influenced by those who care for them. Whether its individuals or a
business which cares about its customers, those who take good care of
others are likely to be influential.
The Visionary -
A visionary is one who thinks beyond the obvious and acts beyond the
conventional. He has no fear and influences others with his far-sighted
vision.
Set
yourself 10 Goals(either in family or work life or both) to achieve
before Christmas and put them in your iPhone or pin them to your
fridge.Set yourself a target of achieving 1 goal per day or week and
then cross them off as you reach your target.
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